Then I went through backpacks, large and small, designed to hold all the baby and small child detritus.
As I got older, the bags seemed to get a little small: they no longer had to hold pacifiers, a container of Cheerios, and an extra diaper. The books were replaced by a Kindle and then a phone.
Did I need all my credit cards? Maybe a slimmed down wallet would do.
The right number of pockets was essential to be able to find things quickly.
I’m still searching as my lifestyle changes.
Just as there seems to be no perfect pocketbook, there is no perfect Haggadah.
In the “old days” Maxwell House Coffee’s Haggadah was ubiquitous in American homes. It sufficed while children squirmed, mothers shushed, and grandpas droned on. And we shared memories of each year’s wine stains. (Check out this “new” edition.)
Today we search for the right Haggadah for our seder at that moment. We consider the relevancy, the art work, the language and the length. Many of us want a Haggadah that reflects us at a particular time in our lives: be it our philosophy, current events or the people around our table.
Each year that I host the seder, I pull out my collection of Haggadot; I look online; I check Amazon for the latest Haggadot. I add readings and remove others.
Haggadot reflect the people and their times. Like my pocketbook, that changes as our needs change.
Take a look at the display of some of the Haggadot in the Library’s collection. Maybe you’ll find some inspiration.
And, don’t forget the search for the perfect matzah balls. But that’s another story.
Here is a list of some Passover resources to enhance your seder experience:
social justice readings: : https://ajws.org/who-we-are/resources/holiday-resources/passover/
commercial resource for many different haggadot: https://www.haggadahsrus.com/
contemporary readings: https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/supplementary-seder-readings/
collection of links to a large range of supplementary readings: https://rac.org/pesach-reading-inserts
make your own Haggadah: https://www.haggadot.com/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIttvMltys4QIVkoTICh01bAROEAAYASAAEgLw7PD_BwE